We all have friends, either best friends or just friends. We all are surrounded by people who may or may not well wishers of us.The point is to realize who is yours in the true sense.People who don't say crap behind you and accept you the way you find yourself the best, are your sincere ones.
We've been hurt many times because we expect too much. Expecting is not that sort of bad as we consider after every heartbreak. We need to consider both sides when we expect something from those whom we love. Think before trust and expect. Trusting someone is so easy and getting betray is easiest.
If we can't restrict ourselves from trusting and loving others then we need to think more before doing anything.
Being a loner depresses you I suppose but not for anyone. The very important thing is to love yourself the most rather than prioritize others. Always give importance to yourself. You are your own best friend.
Surround yourself with the people who don't degrade you after knowing your secrets. Real are those who don't put you down. For them you are the amazing and there should be no requirements in changing yourself into a better person. They don't fight over the little things that weaken the bond and never let yourself drown into your thoughts. Those who aren't the reason of your overthinking and underestimating yourself
If we have such people around us then definitely we blossom amazingly. Our life will get better to have such beings with us.
As the matter of fact, nobody is going to stay with us forever and nobody can always deal with our emotions. Focusing on yourself more than anyone's mood is necessary. I wish, we would have someone who stay with us in our hardest times.
Hurting yourself for others is not normal. If someone is spreading toxicity in your life then you need to let them go!
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